Remembering Someone Matters
Elizabeth Fanslow
A few days ago, my granddaughter texted me and asked for a new pack of cards. And it made my heart so happy.
Every year for Christmas, I give each of my grandkids their own set of cards. But the gift comes with one little promise: unlimited refills all year long.
Because more than giving them paper and envelopes, I want to help them build the habit of noticing people.
When someone crosses their mind. When a friend has a birthday or when someone needs encouragement. When they simply want to say, “I was thinking about you.”
My grandson uses his cards for birthday parties. He writes a handwritten note when he goes to a friend’s party, and I love that so much.
My granddaughters use theirs pretty regularly too, and when they need more I get a text asking for more. I custom design their cards around whatever they are interested in at the time.
Sometimes they want their names on them. Sometimes they don’t. Either way, I’m always happy to make them just how they want them.
I have also sent them Kindness Krewe kits so they can join along in sending cards each month.
Because this has never really been about stationery. It is about teaching them, while they are young, that remembering someone matters.
That kindness does not have to be complicated and that a few handwritten words can make someone feel seen. There is something incredibly special about opening your mailbox and finding a card from a child who took the time to write your name, hold you in their thoughts, and send a little love your way.
My hope is that this feeling stays with them as they grow. That they remember how good it feels to send kindness. And that they carry that habit with them, one card at a time.
If you have children or grandchildren in your life, this is such a simple habit to help them begin. Give them a small stack of cards. Let them choose designs they love. Keep stamps nearby. Remind them that they do not need a big reason to send a note...they only need to think of someone.
This is one small way we can support the cause of keeping handwritten correspondence alive. It doesn't need to be formal or perfect. Just make it familiar and teach them that their words matter.
And by showing them that kindness can travel through the mail and land right where it is needed.